This guide is about reading in English. Follow the sounds and the order your child's teacher or phonics program uses, even where they differ from ours.
Look at the step that's hard
Saying a letter's name, saying its sound and joining sounds into a word are three different jobs. If your child can say each sound but can't read the word, adding more words won't fix it. Watch what happens instead:
- Do they stop between every sound, m... a... n?
- Do they add an "uh" to each one, "muh-a-nuh"?
- Do they look at the picture and guess?
Those notes are worth more to their teacher than a score.
Use sounds your child has been taught
Pick a short word made only of letter sounds your child has already learned. Our example is man, so only use it if m, a and n are familiar. Write m, a and n on three paper squares.
These are the sounds, not the letter names. Say /m/, not "em".
Model a smooth blend
Point under the tiles from left to right and join the sounds without stopping: /mmmaaannn/, then "man". This kind of smooth sounding-out is the model in the U.S. Institute of Education Sciences guide to foundational reading. Slide the tiles closer together as the sounds join. Let your child watch you do it before it's their turn.
Keep the consonants clean. A strong "uh" after each one ("muh-a-nuh") gives your child extra sounds to get rid of, which makes the word harder to hear.
- m
- a
- n
Point to each tile and say its sound: /m/ /a/ /n/
Change only one thing
When "man" feels easy, swap the n for a t to make mat. Model again if needed. Notice that t is a quick sound you can't stretch, so it comes out as /mmmaaat/.
A few words is plenty. One model from you and one try from your child is a good session. No set number of minutes will make blending suddenly click, and that's fine.
Don't let the picture do the reading
Pictures are great for talking about a story. During this activity, though, help your child look at the letters and sounds, not guess from the illustration. Once they've read the word, talk about what it means. Keep your shared read-alouds separate, and free from the pressure of getting this practice right.
When to ask for help
If your child isn't making progress with clear phonics teaching and practice, talk to their teacher or a qualified reading specialist. Ask which sounds and blending skills need support, and whether a reading screening makes sense.
This guide can't tell you why an individual child is finding reading hard, and it can't diagnose a reading difficulty. Be wary of advice that says they'll simply grow out of it.
Try it on paper first
Print the tiles and cut along the dashed lines. Use man, mat and at only once those sounds have been taught. An adult models first, then the child tries.
Letter tiles: m · a · n · t
Try: man · mat · at
Use only after these sounds are taught. Adult models, then child tries. This is practice, not a test.
These few words are a first activity. They're not a full phonics sequence or an assessment.
Sources
- Institute of Education Sciences, What Works Clearinghouse (2016). Foundational Skills to Support Reading for Understanding in Kindergarten Through 3rd Grade, recommendation 3, pages 23 to 25. Smooth blending and letter tiles.
- Massachusetts Department of Elementary and Secondary Education. Phonics and decoding. When and how to look for extra support.